Perception is everything in today’s society and your perception can cause you to be deemed as good or bad person. However, your perception shifts as you go throughout life due to new information you have gathered or due to personal growth (learning through experience).
However, Now I am in a space where my mindset is two sided;
meaning I can be aware of both sides of the arguments. I can understand why someone has a certain perception or mindset, that is different from mine. I can applaud someone but at the same time, motivate them to become better. For example, bro you have mad skills, I am impressed , but then in the same sentence I can say, there’s always room for improvement.
I deem this kind of mindset as a plus, because it helps me understand people’s viewpoint while being empathetic. I can put myself in someone’s else shoes; even if I don’t agree with them, I can understand why they made certain lifestyle choices. In addition, this mindset helps me in my personal life because it helps me see the pros and cons of making a decision. Before I make a decision, I am able to think about it to see if this decision is going to help me or hurt me.