STOP LOOKING FOR EXTERNAL VALIDATION This was something I did in my earlier years in life; and I didn't stop until my 4/5th year of college. (shoutout to all my 5th years out there; all that matters is that you finish)\ According to mytherpaynyc, " This type of validation comes from others validating your individual feelings. It can take … Continue reading STOP LOOKING 4 VALIDATION

Don’t Run From Uncomfortable Convos 🙅🏿‍♂️

I no longer run from uncomfortable/hard conversations; I run towards them In the past, I wasn’t a fan of having uncomfortable conversations; I wasn’t scared of them, but I can say I was afraid of the results of them. I knew that the outcome of the conversation would change the relationship forever. I now could … Continue reading Don’t Run From Uncomfortable Convos 🙅🏿‍♂️